I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months, and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married and we’re all good family friends. I’m really confused about the relationship, as he carries on as if nothing is between us when we’re with other people. Yet, he shows a lot of passion in the bedroom. In fairness to him, it all started out as a bit of fun, and I’m sure that’s the way he still sees it. I daren’t tell him the way I feel in case he ends the affair. I also don’t want to seem pushy, as he’s made no promises. I know he’s sexually attracted to me. But is that all?